It’s a massive week with lots of powerful energy pushing us to notice where we need to make changes. One big theme is around power and control – making sure we’re not in victim mode or, at the other end of the spectrum, not in control freak mode. The challenge is to find a balance between trusting the Universe and acting from a state of empowerment. Safety is also a big theme – when we don’t feel emotionally safe, it’s harder to trust that things will be OK.
Are you an empath? Or is codependency the real issue?
If there’s one misunderstanding I hear repeated again and again among spiritual people, it’s the belief that empaths are somehow destined to attract narcissists or toxic relationships. This frustrates me for two reasons. One, being an empath often gets a bad rap, instead of being celebrated, as I believe it should. And two, this belief is simply not true. So why do people tend to conflate empathy with toxic relationships? I suspect this stems from the common misconception that being an empath makes you “too nice” , meaning you can’t help but fall prey to narcissists (ugh). Well, I’m here to say that while there’s no such thing as being too nice, there is such a thing as having no boundaries. In my experience as an energy healer, what’s playing out in the energy of people (empaths or not) who tend to attract narcissists is actually codependency in disguise. So how can you tell the difference?
Read MoreYour angel cards for December 7-13, 2020
Love and fun are both big themes this week (yay!). Remembering to enjoy our lives and act with love are coming through strongly. And spending our time according to what we value most is also important.
Your angel cards for November 30-December 6, 2020
Letting other people support us is a big vibe this week – so if you are someone who insists on doing everything yourself, the angels are really shaking things up for you. There’s also some welcome messages about new beginnings and stepping into our power.
Your angel cards for November 23-29, 2020
The need for gentle regular exercise that stretches the body and calms the mind again comes through this week. The angels also suggest we become more mindful about how we spend our time – making sure we prioritise people and activities that match what is most important to us.