When you were a kid, did your mum often utter these fateful words? “This is the last time I’ll warn you about this!” And did she follow through on that threat?
When our words and actions don’t match up, that can signify an imbalance in the throat chakra, which is the energy centre concerned with communication.
Spiritually, our words are very important because they connect us to the Universe, so making sure we don’t misuse them can really help us create the life we dream of. Essentially, what we say is a direct reflection of who we are and what we want. And if we can’t express ourselves well, that will adversely affect our relationships too.
While the base chakra’s adversary is fear and the heart chakra faces up to grief, the throat chakra’s challenge is lies. That’s because this energy centre is about how our words align (or not) with what we really mean.
Obviously speech is important when it comes to the throat chakra, but so is listening – which is a major component in healthy relationships, because when you think about it, all any human being really wants is to be heard. If you deny someone that right, ideally you would have a good reason (perhaps their words are detrimental to you, for example).
When this chakra is in balance, you’re able to ask for what you want without apologising for it. You don’t need to yell or use a lot of words when you communicate with people. You listen – really listen! – to people instead of mentally preparing your response while they are still speaking.
The most common way an imbalance in this chakra shows up is when your words don’t match up with your behaviour – you don’t pay people when you say you will, you don’t ring them when you said you would... that type of thing.
People who are deficient in the throat chakra might demonstrate these attributes:
* They can’t say no to anyone, even when they really want to
* They never say what they really think
* They have a quiet voice or an uncertain tone
* They give mixed messages (which is why nothing in their lives works out the way they want it to).
People who have excessive energy in the throat chakra might exhibit these qualities:
*They interrupt and talk over people
* They talk too much, for too long, and repeat themselves constantly
* They gossip regularly
(Image: the throat chakra symbol)
* They use bullying and overly critical words
* They are uncomfortable with silence.
Physically, throat chakra imbalances show up as issues with the throat, ears, jaw, sinuses, glands and thyroid (a gland which, in eastern medicine, is connected to your ability to express yourself).
To bring the throat chakra into balance, practise actively listening. If the energy in your throat chakra is deficient, finding ways to express your truth, such as journalling, can be beneficial. It if is excessive, undertaking periods of silence would help your throat chakra greatly.
Also, this sounds weird, but singing is actually really good for clearing the throat chakra, because it helps you find your voice. For yoga devotees, shoulder stands and plough pose target the throat chakra.